1. Listen.Conversation is a two-way street. You have to listen as much as you talk. When you and the one you’re talking to take turns to actually listen to each other, things will flow more naturally. You’ll also have more time to observe and read people. By listening in a non-judgmental manner, we’re showing that we care about what they’re saying, which allows them to feel comfortable and open up.
2. Don'tbejudgemental. When you’re quick to judge people and situations, you hinder the natural process of communication. These judgments can severely damage our conversations and the ability to develop a rapport with others.
3. Beempathetic. Try to put yourself in the shoes of the speaker. People love to be seen and heard so when you empathize with them, they will feel comfortable in your presence. When empathic listening becomes a habit, you’ll be able to better understand people’s struggles and why they do what they do. Practice empathetic listening in conversation -- (1) Take the time, (2) Offer empathy, (3) Use open-ended, empathic or dangling questions.
4. Watch for nonverbal cues. Communication also includes the body language so take note of your companion’s nonverbal cues. Whatever you’re feeling inside, try to refocus your attention. It is important to notice how the other person is feeling based on that person’s body language.
5. Don’t assume people will agree with you. The next time you have a conversation, do not conclude that just because you like a particular person, then the person you’re talking to have the same views about that same person. Additionally, do not force people to accept, or “like” your opinions. Because everyone has the right to their own.
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1. Listen. Conversation is a two-way street. You have to listen as much as you talk. When you and the one you’re talking to take turns to actually listen to each other, things will flow more naturally. You’ll also have more time to observe and read people. By listening in a non-judgmental manner, we’re showing that we care about what they’re saying, which allows them to feel comfortable and open up.
2. Don't be judgemental. When you’re quick to judge people and situations, you hinder the natural process of communication. These judgments can severely damage our conversations and the ability to develop a rapport with others.
3. Be empathetic. Try to put yourself in the shoes of the speaker. People love to be seen and heard so when you empathize with them, they will feel comfortable in your presence. When empathic listening becomes a habit, you’ll be able to better understand people’s struggles and why they do what they do. Practice empathetic listening in conversation -- (1) Take the time, (2) Offer empathy, (3) Use open-ended, empathic or dangling questions.
4. Watch for nonverbal cues. Communication also includes the body language so take note of your companion’s nonverbal cues. Whatever you’re feeling inside, try to refocus your attention. It is important to notice how the other person is feeling based on that person’s body language.
5. Don’t assume people will agree with you. The next time you have a conversation, do not conclude that just because you like a particular person, then the person you’re talking to have the same views about that same person. Additionally, do not force people to accept, or “like” your opinions. Because everyone has the right to their own.