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It is common to wonder what other people think when it comes to looks and personality. Sometimes insecurities get in the way leading to self-consciousness of things that don't matter to someone else. We put ourselves down often by thinking were not pretty, smart, or interesting enough. Therefore, underestimating leads to undermining qualities we do have that catches the attention of another. You may not realize you are attractive, but there are personal attributes others may find unique, admirable, and even sexy. Just because someone hasn't mentioned, it doesn't mean you're not hot