I don't know if I understood it right but here it is
You: What you're doing is wrong
Other Person: It's not like we're hurting anybody, What's your problem?
You: The alcohol and the smoking is the problem, though it's not hurting anybody, it's hurting you and your body.
Other Person: But it gets us relaxed..
You: There's a lot of other things that you can do to relieve your stress rather than smoking and drinking when you don't even know the things it can do to you
Other Person: I'm sorry, I was too focused on how I'm going to solve my problems, I forgot not taking care of myself could lead to a much bigger problem too,
You: That's fine, Now you know, You shouldn't engage at something you know nothing about and be careful.
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I don't know if I understood it right but here it is
You: What you're doing is wrong
Other Person: It's not like we're hurting anybody, What's your problem?
You: The alcohol and the smoking is the problem, though it's not hurting anybody, it's hurting you and your body.
Other Person: But it gets us relaxed..
You: There's a lot of other things that you can do to relieve your stress rather than smoking and drinking when you don't even know the things it can do to you
Other Person: I'm sorry, I was too focused on how I'm going to solve my problems, I forgot not taking care of myself could lead to a much bigger problem too,
You: That's fine, Now you know, You shouldn't engage at something you know nothing about and be careful.
Other Person: Thank you very much
Hope this helps,